Globalization and social media has spurred some changes in social dynamics. Despite acceptance of western values and consumerism, the rest of the world has strangely adhered to some of our old social habits. The system of dowry for instance, has made female genocide in the villages as well as among certain wealthy classes, a matter of consequence. It is perhaps pertinent to scrutinize the psychological space that we inhabit with the changes that are flourishing all around us. The woman largely portrayed as the mother/nurturer in popular media assumes the denomination of a “giver”. It may be time to redefine the concept of a “giver”. Since our expectations of a “giver” can hold only if we allow the “giver” to be able to “give”.
The Dichotomy of Tradition and Change:
Globalization indeed brings cultural exchange, but it doesn’t always lead to uniformity. Traditional practices often persist alongside modern influences. The system of dowry, deeply entrenched in some societies, remains a poignant example.
Female infanticide, driven by gender bias, persists in pockets of India, Pakistan, and China. These regions grapple with the tension between tradition and progress.
India witnesses one of the highest female infanticide incidents in the world. The female child population in the age group of 0-6 years declined from 78.83 million in 2001 to 75.84 million in 2011. During the period 1991-2011, the child sex ratio (0-6 years) declined from 945 to 9142.
China has also grappled with female infanticide. The modern practice of gender-selective abortion contributes to this phenomenon. The sex ratio at birth in Asia was previously around 104 to 107 males per 100 females, but sex-selective abortion has disrupted this balance
At the end of the 20th century, approximately 3.1 million girls were missing in Pakistan. The extent to which this is attributable to infanticide remains contested1.
In 1998, 391 infant girls were found dead, followed by about 68 in 1999, 59 in 2000, 51 in 2001, and 39 in 20021.
More recently, in 2010, the Edhi Foundation reported 1,210 dead infants, with the majority being girls2.
These figures underscore the urgency of addressing gender bias and promoting awareness to protect every child’s right to life, regardless of gender.
The Role of Media and Perception:
Popular media often portrays women as nurturers, emphasizing their giving nature. This archetype reinforces societal expectations. However, it’s essential to recognize that women are multifaceted. They can be givers, but they also deserve agency, autonomy, and the freedom to receive—to be more than just providers.
Perhaps it’s time to redefine what it means to be a “giver.” Instead of limiting women to this role, we should empower them to give and receive equally. When we allow women to contribute fully—whether as mothers, artists, entrepreneurs, or leaders—we create a more balanced and harmonious world.
